The Art of Not Giving A Fuck

The Art of Not Giving A Fuck – Don’t Listen To Pessimists

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Too many people have such a hard time reaching their goals because they spend too much time caring about what others think about them. There is a fear of society around you which oppresses you to live in the lifestyle it wants for you instead of what you want. Learning to break this mold, is what will break you out of the mix and help you in your journey of growth and being financially satisfied. One of my favorite quotes about this come from Dave Ramsey.

Don’t buy things you can’t afford with money you don’t have to impress people you don’t like. – Dave Ramsey

Welcome To The Art of Not Giving A Fuck

This is a personal lesson I’ve began to pick up on as I journeyed through life and started to really focus on building my wealth and grinding to control my debt and take control of my life. So let me introduce you to the idea of The Art of Not Giving A Fuck.

Would you dare to believe me, if I told you that the secret to a happier and more productive life is to simply not give a fuck? Of course you don’t, you need me to explain myself don’t you? Well, of course I will.

This does not mean, don’t care what about other peoples’ constructive opinions and input. It means not to care about the destructive output and comments that comes at you and weigh you down.

Little Girl Happy

Trust me. She gets it.

 

Why Should You Not Give A Fuck What Others Think?

What a lot of people don’t realize is focusing on yourself is the only way to succeed and help others. It’s the only way to make any change in your life. Whether that means financially, socially, or any aspect of your life. It all begins with you switch off the hard wiring, turning social perspective on its head, and not giving a fuck what anyone say about what fills you with happiness and motivation.

This method can be used in every aspect of your life to vastly build on yourself. For instance, I am an artist as well. Yeah, didn’t know I was a student of the brush did you? (You can check out my work on Instagram)





One issue I struggled with for years was worrying about how much I suck compared to other artists. Hell, even getting it through some people’s brain that art was my passion was a scarring. I cared too much about what others thought when I painted with obscure color choices or they peaked of my shoulders and saw I was practicing anatomy and they thought I was a pervert for draw naked people. The thought of telling new friends or networking myself as an artist, was terrifying.  I worried such much about what others thought about what I was doing that I stopped doing anything.

But one day something in me snapped. For some reason, I was so fed up with looking to grind and improve but being afraid too that I simply snapped. I completely stopped giving a fuck and it completely freed me to do more and grow.

That reason why caring about what everyone else think about you is because, it prevents you mentally from progressing which hinders your work ethic, drive, and motivation to continue hustling.


Make The Pledge And Not Give A Fuck What Others Think

This is sadly much harder said then done. I can’t tell you exactly how to get to this point where you are able to not become mentally drained from caring about what people think you should or shouldn’t do with your life.

So you may be asking, “So what the hell was the point of this ?” Well, it was to bring this problem to light and give you a chance to think: “What was the point of me caring about how others think I should live my life.”

I believe the only true way to help others is by being happy with yourself and the only way to be happy with yourself is to stop giving a fuck what others think about you. Believe in yourself and cut out the negativity and there is now telling how far you will go!

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Entrepreneur | Thinker | Cool Shit Doer at Think Cents
A natural thinker of life, business, and art, Jonathan was born gritty at heart. That grit burns through his blog Think Cents as a desire to fight for financial independence. Seeing how little success traditional work life brings, he's seeking to achieve building his wealth in the more unconventional ways.
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A natural thinker of life, business, and art, Jonathan was born gritty at heart. That grit burns through his blog Think Cents as a desire to fight for financial independence. Seeing how little success traditional work life brings, he's seeking to achieve building his wealth in the more unconventional ways.

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